you can never truly understand a person without understanding his/her past. by understanding what a person has gone through to become who and how he/she is now, you become understanding about many things regarding this person.
instead of saying I am born this way, I have taken a closer look at myself and realised how my experience has shaped me, despite the fact that I have been making constant efforts to fight the influence of many negative experiences in the past.
I guess the same happens to people around me. people are how they are because of a series of reasons I haven't experienced, sometimes it is easier to accept their behaviour instead of asking why and hoping for changes.
sometimes it is easier to focus on myself, be shortsighted and self-centered.
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