before midnight.
when i was 14 i felt that Lolita was strange and irrelevant. when i re-visited Lolita at 27, i understood something important -- obsess over no man. let no man obsess over you. i used to think obsession romantic. now i find that thought highly immature.
i have some more books to read, and more movies to watch before my darling is here. sometimes i kind of wish that i can keep him longer than time allows. i am not obsessed. i am just very much in love and a little bit addicted.
